Porn has a reductive value on the desire we have for our partners. The story that you tell yourself about porn and masturbation seems to be the biggest determinant of how it makes you feel. If you're hiding porn use from your partner, that is a huge, huge red flag. But I do think that if you want to increase the sex drive in your relationship, just saying, okay, if we want to do anything sexual, we do it together.

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