Red flags in a relationship have to do with things like attachment style. Red flag research is complicated, and they can't be boiled down to these simple things. The other issue with red flags is that i've seen a lot of lationships that are very successful that include red flags. So you talk about your exes too much, maybe that's because you had two really bad, tramatic x-tremorous experiences as a human being. This was sort of like the motherload. Thank god doctor white published the scrap.