Aren't You Not Necessarily Judgmental?

I don't think that anybody should tell another person how they should worship, or how they should be religious. By the way, that's the trap. It is the trap. And i've had conversations with family members where i'll just say, you know, it's the most fundamental way i can say it,. I'm just like, aren't you not supposed to be judgmental? Aren't you just supposed to love everybody?