You're Death Duellers, Right?

Long disaster is not about thinking of every way and preparing for every contingency, it's about being prepared to take the hits that you can't see coming. There is an incredible collective pique through you have to go out with different people and try lots of different things and keep going when they fail. And once you've found them, you experience that joy every time you get together. Ye yeYe! We're dying for a chance to really feel alive and really feel connected. That balant the triumph and he disastersof what you're talking about are much stronger pulls than being stuck on the hampster wheel rit which most people in modern world find themes trapped on.