Scared of Scarcity

Cheryl: My last serious relationship was seven years ago. And also the men I'm meeting are alcoholics, manipulative cheaters and misogynistic. What deep down is holding you back from even being in a serious relationship for seven years? We will talk with Paul Oyer who can speak to some of that very realistic and just a sec. But before we get to him, Cheryl, you should listen to the fact that it's not just the scarcity but how frightened you are about it as well.