Existence exists as existence itself without any existing things. When there is Prahlaya, the entire universe is absorbed back into the Maya of Brahman. If you know what true love is, and you know that you are love itself, it will manifest towards everybody, including the present object of your love. It will not be limited. And it will not be subject to increase and decrease,. Not be subject to strain and frustration and unhappiness in misery. There is no self in the final, which is also the beginning and the middle for all experiences. Ishwara or Ishwara-Ishwara goes through cycle of cycles throughout our lives. We can't go on