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#79 – A.J. Jacobs on radical honesty, following the whole Bible, and reframing global problems as puzzles

80,000 Hours Podcast

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Do You Feel Like You Changed Your Relationship?

I think in the beginning of my relationship, I definitely baited and switched my wife because I pretended to be someone who loved going out all the time. And then once we got married, I revealed my true self, which is more like you, preferring to watch Netflix. So I think that I would not do that today. I much more open with my. If she wants me to do something, then I do try to say, you know, how important is it to you on a scale of one to 10? Sometimes she'll invite me just because she thinks I want to go. But I don't.

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