The Flight Trauma Response, Fear, and Your Nervous System Explained
Trauma Rewired
Intro
This chapter examines the flight response, focusing on how people often evade their own emotions instead of facing external challenges. It underscores the significance of slowing down to process feelings and shares insights from personal experiences with somatic therapy.
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The flight response is often misunderstood as weakness or avoidance, but it’s actually a deeply wired survival strategy shaped by fear and trauma. In this episode of Trauma Rewired, we uncover how the nervous system uses constant motion, through overwork, hustle, and productivity, to escape from internal sensations and emotions that once felt unsafe.
You’ll learn how fear disguises itself as discipline, why rest feels threatening to high performers, and how chronic busyness creates a false sense of safety while eroding health and connection. From neuroscience to personal stories, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof explain the mechanisms of the flight response, its roots in trauma, and the protective role it sometimes plays.
Most importantly, we share practical somatic tools to slow down, regulate the nervous system, and reclaim fear as a signal for presence and alignment, not something to outrun.
00:00 – Running from internal sensations, not others 00:24 – Busyness and productivity as avoidance 00:43 – Slowing down in somatic therapy 01:33 – Hustler identity and chronic overdoing 02:25 – Flight tied to fear of stillness 03:11 – Welcome to Trauma Rewired 04:15 – Flight patterns: urgency, overscheduling, avoidance 05:13 – When flight signals misalignment 07:46 – Flight as protection against overstimulation 09:31 – Brain-body mechanics of flight 11:50 – Fear bypassed as weakness 13:10 – Trauma and structural reinforcement of flight 15:36 – Movement replacing emotion 17:35 – Somatic healing requires slowing down 18:32 – Signs of inward-directed flight 19:55 – Disconnection from body cues (hunger, fatigue) 23:39 – Somatic regulation steps and tools 25:53 – Fear as primal protective signal 28:12 – Regulation tools to create space between sensation and action 31:24 – Stillness and vulnerability as safety 32:16 – Somatic release of fear: frozen shoulder story 33:28 – Reclaiming emotions as growth tools 34:36 – Fear, intuition, and aligned action
Topics Discussed in This Episode:
- The difference between healthy fear and chronic flight
- How trauma conditions the nervous system to stay in motion
- The neuroscience of the flight response: amygdala, hypothalamus, PAG, prefrontal cortex
- Why productivity and hustle are often survival strategies
- Signs of chronic flight in relationships and work
- The hidden cost of avoiding emotions through busyness
- Somatic tools for slowing down and processing fear
- Rewiring chronic flight through neuroplasticity and body-based healing
- The role of cultural and systemic trauma in reinforcing flight
- How to reclaim fear as a clarifying signal for safety and presence
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