Codependency - What Is This About?

For me, when i began to understand codependency, it was like suddenly there was a door that was cut out of this whirling tornado that i was in. And i can't, i could not get out of it. I didn't know i was in a tornado. I knew nothing about codependency and rescuing and fixing and catering and caretaking and playing the martyr. Like, what is this about? What is this weird, weird vortex that i'm in?I couldn't figure it out because i was in the middle of it. We're caught up in this tornado. Our relationships are very dis functional,. They're unfulfilling, and we're exhausted all