Why You Shouldn't Ask People for What You Need

Hector has been desperate for relationship security and to feel like he's important. Max is not actually a reliable source for the security, availability and prioritization hector is looking for. We tend to worry that asking people for what we need and want is using them. But it isn't. People want the resources they hold to be recognized for their value. What they don't want is for you to use them as a resource to their own detriment.