The Role of Clinical Judgment in Pornography

The first question should be, does your husband know you know? And if so, was he sorry that he did something that hurt and betrayed you? Looking with lust is not a sin in Judaism. So pornography, when I'm asked this question, just to put you on the spot, you did indeed. Men want variety. If adultery is a substitute for one's wife, it's awful. If it's a substitute for adultery, it's not awful. That's that is my unpredictable answer.