I Will Never Abuse My Own Children

We see this with alcoholism and drg addiction. So maybe again, a parent is an alcoholic. One child becomes an alcoholic also. But then the other child chooses something different. And they're using the same excuse, my parents were alcoholics. But they choose totally different paths. This is a good reminder that we have this in life. Any time something bad happens to you, even someone abuses you, is bad to you, you have a choice. Just because you're a victim, just because you're bullied, that does not mean you also must become a terrible bully.