Is There More Control or Are You Just Dealing With It Differently?

I think one of the big things I've kind of come to terms with is this difference between the way you want things to be and the way things really are. Just realizing that, yeah, there's a lot of crappy stuff in life. No amount of you trying to convince them that they should see things your way or act. The way you would want them to act is going to change. That's a huge one, man.