Is There a Difference Between Male and Female?

Raman a maharshi found some value in community, even though he was supposedly very enlightened. You don't want to get too lost in community. There's the opposite problem of getting too attached with your family and losing your own life purpose. Some men can be more feminine and some women can be more masculine. And all of us value these things to some degree. It's just aa rfinding these balances in their general trends.