At the end of the course of love, you declare we don't need to be constantly reasonable in order to have good relationships. So kurston understands where some of her slike ly unusual behaviour around love, comes from. So does rabby. They they just become better able to go, you know, that thing's happening in me. I'm giving you a little bit of a warning. You're not getting the full brunt of my disturbed state because i'm able to put a kind of meta narrative. And this is what one could call a kind of therapeutic relationship, or a therapized relationship. Two people are just better able to give each other a manual for how the other