372 - Needs, Desires, Boundaries, and More
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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Do Not Under Any Conditions Do Such and Such?
With agreements, we have an image of two people who are coming together to establish some mutual expectations for behavior. I think that so often these discussions get caught up in, well, by definition, is that actually a rule or a boundary or a whatever else or isn't an agreement? Or like, oh, if you'd call it this, it's better than calling it this other thing. This is another one where, again, especially the non-nogamous community, it can be slapped on literally whatever it is that you wanted you want with the feeling that, like,Oh, it's agreement. That means it's softer. And now I'm going to do it. Yeah
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