Avoidant Attachment

The child adapts by avoiding closeness in interpersonal relationships. If you were missing something as a kid, you are not going to know that as an adult unless you've done a lot of work on your story already. Whatever level of care and comfort you did receive, it's just the way things were for you as a child. Unti, it felt normal. And if you want more n attachment, you can listen to podcast episodes five and sev where i go into it in great detail.