How to Be a Plus One at a Wedding

There's a difference between how lit you're allowed to get as someone who's either part of the wedding party or just a normal plus one. I think if you're not super close with anyone at the wedding but you're not a plus one then it's actually safer to get like fucked up. You want to be messed up where you get back to your hotel and you like throw up there because you don't draw any attention to yourself pretty much. If you are a family member that's like close or like kind of close then like you can totally get like super screwed up which is less acceptable than being an outer circle friend. But what are they gonna do you're fucking family at least