I Don't Have It Figured Out but I Want Kids and I Want to Get Married

I don't have it figured out and I'm someone who doesn't like not having a thing to figure out Right, yeah, I get that But I do think I need to stop being so mean It's this balance right between trying to figure it out now because you kind of want to be able to have a plan. And then also realizing that you shouldn't overthink this thing as well. So what we're talking about now is like compromise and how you reach that compromise in your life if possible. We all as a society need to just reconsider the law or a religion should be involved in love...it has a great track record with love.