After i read victor franco's thing, i really made it a point to study what is really love. Love envieth not love vaunteth not itself. Doth not behave itself unseemly. Seeketh not er owne is not easy to provoke. So i broke it down and studied each one of these characteristics. And if you don't have these ingredients, how could you experience love? That was a great study,. It really helped me to understand and to focus what that is.