The Other Regarding Emotions

i am on a farm in connecticut, and we do have sheep. And sheep are not stupid sheep. What sheep are are incredibly other regarding. They're always very aware of where the other sheep are. Not because they really care about the other sheep, but because there is that other sheep in danger. That's what you refer to, i think, in your book as what you like to call cycle too,. About using mamesisam thinking about this, but in a way that makes us stronger and better - not weaker and more prone to being nudged by others.