Are You Making Yourself Unhappy Through the Gap Process?

Gap has a lot to do with like confidence and self esteem, which obviously confidence is a big part of this. It shows if you go into the gap and fall apart, that you weren't confident in the first place, right? That like you had. Rather than using former confidence by looking at the gain to propel future growth,. If you were so in the gap about your own identity and about your self image that maybe once you got that thing, you'd be a somebody. Yeah. So this is the basic concept. And it's one of those ideas. I have a diagram and the diagram that you and I are using for guiding us in this conversation was exactly today what it