Are You Developing Emotional Intelligence?

i think what's so magnetic about people who, you know, able to stay calm and collected in stressful situations is they seem to do it naturally. And i wonder if then part of the skill of emotional intelligence here is the ability to look like you're not trying that heart. It makes me think we should spend more time studying carismatic people who fail. Are they so used to being charming that they don't prepare enough? We should also study leaders who are lacking in the traditional qualities ofcharisma, but manage to drive teams and organizations to accomplish great things. I have no idea why any one would want to study people like individual people. People are what make the world go round