What Are the Components of a Perfect Opener?

I was coming from a place of very low self esteem and everything, but as well as just like not being able to effectively communicate with people. And what were you trying to do in communication? That's a good question. I think at the time, I was kind of just desperate and like looking for really any kind of, you know, connectionReally, like, I was really kind of just looking for whatever I could get.