The Myth of Unconditional Love

We rob our children of the very thing we think we want them to become, which is autonomous. autonomy means they have to make their own mistakes. So it's not so much that you don't guide them and you don't teach them, but it's the attachment with which you do so. Being a parent comes with a lot of risk. You can't always be around 24-7. But ultimately, internally, you're going to have to release them to the cruelty of the world. It's because I loved you that I yelled at you. Right?