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Episode 2324:

Dr. Diana Kirschner explores the self-sabotaging dating pattern where women dismiss potential partners over trivial flaws, believing they are "not willing to settle." Instead, she argues, it’s essential to focus on a man’s deeper values, like empathy and personal growth, which are the real foundations for lasting love. She challenges women to give men a fair chance and avoid the perfectionism that often leads to missed opportunities for happiness.

Read along with the original article(s) here: http://lovein90days.com/not-willing-settle-love-life/ & http://lovein90days.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-has-soulmate-potential/

Quotes to ponder:

"Love often comes in a surprise package."

"These complaints have nothing to do with the qualities that make for a partner who can provide lasting love and happiness."

"You unconsciously project your own feelings of inadequacy onto each guy you meet or date."

Episode references:

Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough: https://www.amazon.com/Marry-Him-Case-Settling-Enough/dp/0525951512

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