What I've Learned From the Church Is Don't Do It if You're Not Married

"The only thing I learned from the church was don't do it if you're not married," he says. "I had no idea what a sexual ethic that I should have had and here's the gods honest truth that in many ways was one of the most harmful things to my marriage." He adds, 'Your culture shouldn't be the final arbiter of things because it changes so much'