Self-Love as Seeing, Accepting, Trusting

In this episode of Curiosity Theory, hosts Dr. Dakotah Tyler and Justin Shaifer sit down with Dr. Taylor Cummings, educational psychologist and founder of The Self-Love Doc, for a conversation about what Western science gets wrong about knowledge, healing, and the human experience.

The discussion moves from her dissertation, titled The Miseducation of Taylor Cummings, and how colonial frameworks shaped what we call legitimate science, to what happens when you strip emotion, language, and African-centered ways of knowing out of the picture entirely. From there they get into embodiment and why most people have never been taught to understand their own bodies, how K-12 education kills curiosity before it ever gets started, and what self-love actually means when you look at it through the lens of educational psychology rather than a motivational caption.

The conversation also dives into her personal story of misdiagnosis, going on and then coming off an SSRI, and finding her own path to healing through identity and consciousness. She breaks down why depression and mental illness might be better understood as systems problems rather than individual failures, what evolutionary mismatch tells us about modern life, how African-centered and Akan healing traditions offer frameworks Western psychology is only beginning to catch up to, and why carbon, stardust, and the cosmos have more to do with self-knowledge than most people realize.

Chapters

00:00:00 Intro and meeting Dr. Taylor Cummings
 00:03:00 The Miseducation of Taylor Cummings: her dissertation explained
 00:04:20 How Western science stripped emotion and African knowledge from the picture
 00:13:25 Embodiment: why we don't know our own bodies
 00:14:17 How K-12 kills curiosity and what education gets wrong
 00:19:00 What self-love actually means from a psychology perspective
 00:22:00 Her personal journey: injury, community college, and trusted mentors
 00:26:05 What psychology gets wrong about grief and loss
 00:31:30 Her SSRI story: misdiagnosis, medication, and finding her own path
 00:34:06 African-centered healing traditions and the Akan
 00:42:14 Why depression might be a systems problem not a personal one
 00:47:49 Evolutionary mismatch: we were never meant to live like this
 00:56:00 Carbon, stardust, and what the cosmos has to do with consciousness
 01:12:51 Consciousness, energy, and collective connection
 01:25:13 The Decolonize Your Mind resource guide
 01:26:06 Where to find Dr. Taylor

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 Dr. Taylor Cummings | @theselflovedoc

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