The Waiting Trap

If you're in a relationship with someone with borderline personality is have is give yourself a reasonable date for them to make chains that you've requested. You do not deserve their toxicity and you are not responsible to be their treatment providers. If your self-esteem is in the toilet, more likely gonna stay in the borderline easily beat you down if you think by staying is going to help it's actually doing the opposite because you're basically allowing and giving permission for this behavior. It's like couples therapy one-on-one as soon as we say you need to make it you need to go to therapy it's like putting the brakes onlike no it's it's not my issue it's yours