Speaker 1
That also is healing to be a brother, to be a sister with each other and to not always be making somebody feel like I have to keep a boundary around you because you might not be safer. I might, I need to protect myself, but I want to be Christ. It's hard. Like the physical touch, like hugging and stuff, I'm just more excited. I hear all that. I 100% like affirmed that that's a beautiful thing and brothers and sisters in Christ can hug each other. I mean, gosh, they're kissing each other in the first century. So and when I, you know, my wife's from France, when I go to France, it's like, you're greeting is, you know, yeah, you can kiss. I've got a funny story about, okay, so, yeah, first time in France, visiting some friends of my wife's family, you know, so they go back, you know, and there's all these like, and this is my wife and I were first married. So like two years in our marriage. And there's all these, like the wives of the young men who are about my age, you know, and we go through the line. And I think I was first in line, the greetings, I'm like shaking hands, shaking hands, I turn back and everybody's kissing each other. I'm like, Oh, okay, I guess that's what I'm supposed to do. So then halfway through, I start kissing all the women. It sounds about, you know, in the greeting, the French greeting. But then I realize, why didn't kiss the other ones? So then I go back in line to make up where I left off. Then it looks, then I get confused where I began to left off. So it looks like I'm just like going in for seconds or something. And everybody's like, crap, they're dying laughing because I started turning, I'm like, I don't know what's going on here. You know, oh, yeah. So I'm glad we don't do that. That would be I don't know. That'd be a lot for me to get used to. Here's, I might release this episode, just my Patreon supporters, just keep going to pay while I am nervous about physical touch being misinterpreted.