Do You Have the Right to Violate Your Boundaries?

If i love myself just the way i am and don't think i need go at all, i'm going to keep fighting. O but if i believe i'm on the way, then i i reorient myself towards all these painful difficulties like, oh, ok, this is for me and from me. But that's something that happens internally. And if we can figure out, oh, no, it just needs to come over in this direction, then it will play a healthy role.