How Do I Get a Compliment Back From Myself?

i can see how sending a compliment right back is a way to get out of the awkward zone of receiving. From their end, it's like your trying t you're giving someone a gift that's actually a love language. You no words of affirmation and compliments. And when some one doesn't receive it, it's sort of like giving a person a physical gift and them saying, no, i couldn't take this. So what if you'd stead o make it less about yourself and just receive it and say, thank that made my day.