I'm one of the stars, and i'm talking too, you know, fill ind a blank here. I would do it because i was like, i'm a good person. And when you're in the moment and when you're reminded, as father as reminded me, tenderness for its own sake is beautiful. It starts with me loving my wounds, the tea shirt thing. Yes? Well, you see that everything is a wound, even like behaviour that is atrocious is coming from a wound. Like healthy, happy people don't kill people or do awful things to them. These are my wounds i was. We could play back the tape and see where i learned these things