Relationship Status - You Can't Make Assumptions

The only way to know where you're at in your current relationship is to talk to your partner. Ask questions that are as direct or could be as direct as, Hey, how do you feel about our sex life right now? What are your thoughts on it? Do you think it's been better this month and last month? Do they think it's better this year than last year? You know, asking questions like this and just starting a conversation this way is the best place to start.