There's a lot of places where people just deny themselves the things they would love and the things that would make them shine, out of fear. We worry people aren't going to like us unless we say yes to everything. But meanwhile, if you say yes to everything, you get resentful and grouchy and passive, aggressive, and they end up not liking you. And i think this is the cosmic joke of i a human being on planet earth, is all the things we do to avoid pain are the thing that cause us the very pain we're trying to avoid.

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