Phantom Daters and Asking Directly

Patti calls out phantom daters who text but avoid commitment and recommends direct questions about intent.

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Modern dating feels like a full-time job—great first dates, real chemistry, and then suddenly… ghosted.

This week, I’m sitting down with the ultimate straight-shooter in love and dating: Patti Stanger. She’s a third-generation matchmaker and the powerhouse behind 'The Millionaire Matchmaker.' We break down modern dating rules, the biggest mistakes people make, and play rapid-fire red, green, or beige flag.

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Patti Stanger

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