The Importance of Intentional Thinking

"I think it's a great thing to think about like anything else. But what people are actually there for, which was for me, so frustrating because I just wanted to know what people wanted," she said. "We don't just stick to something because it's what we originally believed." She says her husband told her on their first date that he wasn't really looking to date but rather find his wife this fall at Stanford where the pool of pre vetted candidates is large. The couple has been together 11 years and have three kids going on; they're happily married.