Choosing to Step Off the Relationship Escalator

Non-monogamous and polyamorous people still do sometimes look for security and meaning through exclusivity. You may have other partners but maybe I'm the only one that you bring home to your parents for the holidays. A familiar one that I have done a whole episode about is I am the only penis having person that you have sex with or I'm theonly vagina having person thatyou have sex with. Maybe I'm the Only One That You Take To The Restaurant, because we love our favourite restaurant so much. It can really help to find some words to describe to yourself who this person is for you.