The Limit Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

i love this idea of the absent object as a way to replace ja. Because i do feel like there is this unfortunate jargon thing attached to j that's a barrier to its wider dissemination among people. I think it shots a concept that needs to be more disseminated more widely. And again, that's the clunky and not catchy, but right. The limit is the basis upon which, like, you knowthe the heart cn feel anything toward anything.