Is Aggressivity Linked to the Ego?

I think one of his biggest contributions was to see the ego as imaginary, as a bodily ego. That it's an image that we first get from the other, and then we develop for ourselves. And i think everybody can relate to that, right? Like, you you saw someone doing something, or holding themselves a certain way, and then you modelled your own ego on that ego of the other,. Right? Imean, it's so embarrassing to even i i, i explained this as n example to one of my classes, and immediately after wis like, that is so humiliating. How did you even, how could you even say it as an example? Like, just just