The Importance of Secure Attachment in Relationships

In order to build healthy relationships, you need to have from those early years these secure attachment relationships. And so it's not surprising that when I would talk to boys about love, that they generally wanted love attachment relationship,. But they thought that that was a personal quirk of theirs that was not shared by their peers. Even guys who did want that would sometimes behave in ways that were completely counter to that in their intimate encounters with girls or other boys.