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How to Overvalue a Person
People look at attributes, height, job, looks, charisma and they undervalue everything the person's actually doing. If you're going to obsess about anything, obsess about the relationship you actually have with that person. What kind of value do they add to your life? You don't know who they'll be in week 52. I'm just tempering enthusiasm a little bit because even their behavior in relation to you is something that has to play out over time.