You can develop some degree of control over what you share with people emotionally. You want to give people a door to walk through and let them walk through it. If they say, oh, like, what's been hard about your life recently, you can say, well, like, you know, this may sound ironic, but actually coming here is tough because i'm working on making friends. Just be generic. And then other people wil be like, ya, man, i totally get you. Or egie, like, open the door for them. Don't force them to walked through it. It's just shooting balls at them constantly.