I think we're telling ourselves a story, and we want evidence to confirm that story. We're doing all these things to confirm our limiting beliefs or stories we have about ourselves. And that's why we're not taking action. I cam i'm both. Maybe you've over indexd on one, and maybe your story is somewhat justified in that. But if it's fixed, you are just trapped in a loop, right? You see that in so many people again and again and again. It's much harder to see it in yourself. For me, it's quite challenging, not to say that. I don't need to take responsibility for that, if that's what i want