What's the Difference Between Acceptable and Not Acceptable?

I think part of the reason as o struggle is because we really, as a society, value who we are in the first half of the cycle. That's when am we're more we're more chatty, we're more flirty and our features even look different. And so these are the things that society ad and particularly a patriarchal society, really value. But you know, when we're talking about emotions like frustration and rage and am and depression and all these emotions that might kind of be quite common for people in that phase of the cycle, most of us haven't really had healthy expression of those emotions modelled to us. We've never been taught how to actually be emotional.