How Important Is It Fix That Miss Match?

There is no system that i am aware of where every kid fits in all the time. What's really happening is a mismatch between the system and the kid. And we have to decide, how important is it fix that miss match? Well, one choice is to make the kid feel bad. Another option is to realize that when your child is in a classroom of kids younger than they are, they might find the confidence to speak up.