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#489 - Jessica Baum - How To Deal With Being Anxiously Attached
Modern Wisdom
The Relationship Isn't About the Patterns of Love, It's About the Relationship
When you grow up, you look for patterns of love that are familiar to you from when you ere a kid. The neural chemical that are released earlyon and the relationship are extra potent because your brain didn't receive them as a baby. And so we start to form these nervous system responses that then repeat themselves in our romantic relationships. Get we have something called rupture and repair. So we're supposed to get into conflict. And with our primary caregiver, it's not that conflict doesn't happen. We cry for help, we cry for our needs. If our partner or apparent can attune to that, we learn that our needs can get but if they aren't really attuned
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