There's a part of this person's mind that i would bet money was like, don't make this post. No one's going to be able to help you. You can figure it out on your own. There's the part of your mind that says, don't bother. The first thing that i want to commend this person for is actually making the post. Because they're stepping outside of their comfort zone. They're being a little bit open minded. So good job.