How to Disagree Effectively

There is an impentrable wall between yuno, you know, what i think, and what they thinkand i have found absolutely no way to breach that. But yes, i am very hopeful, because there's so much evidence now, like real, good evidence, basis for how to disagree effectively. There are even scripts in this book to kind of show you, like, how a conversation can slowly move towards helping some one understand their biases. Do you distinguish between disinformation and gas lighting? I think that these different strategies work really well together to dupeus, to have us falling for bunk, and then to further polarize us  so that where we feel safest is