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Surviving the Narcissist Epidemic: The Practical Narcissism Survival Guide

Notus & Friends

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How to Stop a Malignant Narcissist's Abuse

Malignant narcissists seek to control others through provoking emotional responses and through destroying things they envy if you simply stop responding you take they control away this is extremely important so it bears repeating. If the two-year-old in our analogy can no longer provoke the emotional response he is looking for or if the object of envy is gone he will stop his behavior and move on to something else. Don't give them anything to envy and stop responding to their attacks by not allowing emotions to become a part of the conversation in any way do not defend yourself don't apologizeDon't insult in response simply answer the question and leave it at that The malignant narcissist will undoubtedly continue for a little while

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